Personal policies are definitely the way to go in this scenario. They are mysterious and they tend to make people a little bit uncomfortable and really shut down the conversation. Like Kanye. And the even better thing about developing a personal policy is that it’s your policy, so you can amend it or suspend it whenever you want—and nobody wants to argue with you because they’re afraid of hurting your feelings! That’s some real ninja shit right there. Mr. Miyagi would be proud.

