When you do finally meet your love, honestly confide in him. Hold nothing back. Not only the high hopes you have, but also the dark fear that you may not be capable of taking responsibility for another person’s happiness. Show each other that you not only love but also respect each other. Define your values, but know that you both must be willing to compromise. Believe that the life you create together is the top priority and you will do all you can to make it work.
