And as I said, we often experience this transition at the threshold of change, when there is a catalytic event or happening, so of course it comes with grief or anger. But as development continues, we move from this stage to one of acknowledging paradox and transcendence. And finally, a few of us may land in the sixth stage: universalizing, when we come at last to compassion and love and grace, to the enlightenment of treating all with ferocious love and tender justice.
