The Oedipus Complex Each boy, unconsciously, goes through a sequence of sub-stages: (a) Developing a strong desire for his mother. (b) Noticing the close bond between his parents (sleeping together). (c) Becoming jealous of his father and hating him. (d) Being afraid of his father, who might discover his true feelings (i.e. the boy’s desire, jealousy and hatred) (e) Fearing the ultimate punishment for a boy – CASTRATION!
