So often when we doubt ourselves, especially in the face of what we consider to be important events in our lives, we are actually doubting our sense of connection with others, not least with God. We doubt that we will be okay. To be okay as a human is first and foremost about being connected to God and others. It is not ultimately about having enough information, skill, intelligence or experience. Neither is it about being youthful, svelte or ripped, nor having enough money, sex or power. And when doubt involves any of these, you can be confident that shame is the emotional feature that is
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