Each action you take, each choice you make, will grow something in your life and in our world. Conscious actions and choices may not give you the euphoric high of revenge, but neither will they grow poison oak in your backyard. They can, however, grow you a bountiful and beautiful life.
I believe this. I'm looking back now..read this book about two years ago during a hard break up and truly tried to use this approach. It does seem to have been a better way to move through it, for me.

