But she will get a more complete sense of what kind of man you are, as a potential lover, partner, or father, by looking at all kinds of social proofs: • Can she see that many people know and like you? That’s popularity. • Can she see people paying attention to what you do and say? That’s status. • Can she see people changing their minds to fit your worldview? That’s influence. • Can she see people respecting your skills and expertise? That’s prestige. • Can she see you being outgoing and socially confident? That’s extroversion. • Has she heard of you through media before meeting you? That’s
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