if you’re a twenty-five-year-old guy in a place full of undergrads, you can do very well. Likewise if you’re a decent guy in your 40s in a place full of frustrated women in their 30s (like NYC), they’ve already realized that most of the men at their ideal age are either married, never-married losers, or divorced-and-damaged dads. You might be the droid they’ve been looking for.