The good news is that even if you’re not particularly extroverted, you can fake it. All that being outgoing really requires from a mating perspective is some basic human engagement: a warm smile, inviting eye contact, strong open posture, acknowledging her with words like “hello” and “how are you?” instead of the guy head nod or short bus wave. A woman wants to know that you are safe, accepted, and effective in your social environment.
