We’re starving for a sense of identity, and even more, for belonging in a community. This desire isn’t bad, at all. It’s latent in all of us from birth because it was put there by God. But when we search for identity and belonging in what we do for fun, instead of in God and his people, we turn music or sport or fashion or fishing or whatever it is we love into a little-g god, and we come up empty every time.