You find yourself explaining the basic elements of human respect to a full-grown man or woman. Normal people understand fundamental concepts like honesty and kindness. Psychopaths often appear to be childlike and innocent, but don’t let this mask fool you. No adult should need to be told how he or she is making other people feel.
I guess BPD & other Mental Illnesses are all the same here. I do wish sometimes to be reminded how my tone or decision is going to make people vanish from my life due to the way I have made them feel, this goes on a paternal kind of way not thinking correctly and then why bother feel bad when they are no longer here, no way of apologizing because its too late.