They withhold attention and undermine your self-esteem. After once showering you with nonstop attention and admiration, they suddenly seem completely bored by you. They treat you with silence and become very annoyed that you’re interested in continuing the passionate relationship that they created. You begin to feel like a chore to them. They
I never did this. I know I was and Im toxic but I always tried to give her attention. I never discarded her or though of being superior. This book its hard to read from my end. I have to try it with a grain of salt and not overthink like itis dircted to me, that is being disassociating a sign not of only BPD but pychoses. Im reading it worried of the fires from Geyserville Peak reaching here as the bad fires of 10-2017. I am woried fir my ex if they do a power shutoff, does she have flashlights and emergency kit? I bought he all thatmonths ago I havent given her any of it for being in no contact is her decision wich I totally agree to it. Its very windy this morning at 3:56 am on October 27, 2019, a fire could srart anywhere. I hope she is ok. Its hard to be lonely and feeling emotionally abusive at the same time.
