Focuses on your mistakes and ignores their own.
I focused on her positively and relatively as well, I looked at my flaws and talked about mikne as well, I am both Quiet BPD and external BPD as well with Narcissistic traits, something I shouldn't have done was look at her flaws and make accusations of how it seemed she treated me which I couldn't get ijn my head that's how introverts are, she might be an INFP which is nothing bad thats how they cope with emotions.