Toxic people condition us to ignore our intuition, and we must learn to trust it again. Instead of judging outwardly, we need to perceive inwardly. When we start focusing on our own feelings, this is where the healing begins.
This goes for everyone who has been a victim in a toxic relationship. This is the way I see it as the best way to walking away because you matter, the best way to move on and heal.
hen you follow your intuition it's when yo give yourselves a chance to grow. You'll see that the most important after your toxic partner has fled, you are most important. Whatever the reason he or she left it does no matter see it as a break t breathe and realize that is you who you need to focus on. If your intuition is telling you that he or she will comeback or if is telling to get out, change the locks, get a retraining order, go stay at your relative's or best friend's house then do it. What is important is your safety and wellness. Take the necessary measures I am not saying all toxic partners are violent or that they'll comeback, I know I didn't because I felt broken, I felt I was a disturbing her peace and I did not let her grow as a person so I left to give her space, not to discard her, that was not my idea. It worked out for her, it gave her the time to think about what was best for her and that is to not be in a toxic relationship that did not serve her.
Follow your intuition, seek professional help, work on yourself, do the things you weren't able to do before and live a happy life, make your life happy again, get that clarity and a sense of peace back in your life. Do it for you, in the end this will be the best way to defeat your abuser. Take care.
