For example, you probably didn’t consider yourself to be a jealous person before you met the psychopath. You might have even taken pride in being remarkably relaxed and open-minded. The psychopath recognizes this and seeks to exploit it. During the grooming phase, they draw you in by flattering you about those traits—they just can’t believe how perfect you are. The two of you never fight. There’s never any drama. You’re so easygoing compared to their crazy, evil ex.
