Like Oscar Wilde said, ‘All of us are in the gutter but some of us are looking at the stars.’ Pain may linger for a little while, but suffering starts to subside when you accept: ‘Fine, it has happened now. Let me deal with it. I’m not going to let my past ruin my present or dictate my future. I’ve come to the realization that it’s not the goad (event) itself but the mahout (life) who is causing my pain.
