But I am not here to say either-or. I am here to say both-and. It is not just “the exception that proves the rule” but somehow that the loss or transgression of the rule also proves the importance and purpose of the rule. You must first eat the fruit of the garden, so you know what it tastes like—and what you are missing if and when you stop eating it. We are perhaps the first generation in history, we postmodern folks, who have the freedom both to know the rules and also to critique the rules at the same time. This is changing everything and evolving consciousness at a rather quick rate.3