I must sadly admit that I am impatient with people who do not see things this way; but it took me a long time to get here myself, so I have learned to be more patient and compassionate over time. I don't need to push the river as much now, or own the river, or get everybody in my precise river; nor do others have to name the river the same way I do in order for me to trust them or their goodwill. It takes lots of drowning in your own too tiny river to get to this big and good place.
