He was unwilling to give up the girlfriend, and he wanted to stay married. It was a difficult time for her as she struggled to figure out what to do. Eventually my friend’s only option was to divorce him. It wasn’t an easy choice. She had three kids to support. But in the middle of all this tension, she was also afraid her church would no longer let her volunteer. One day, she asked the music minister, “Should I stop serving because I’m likely getting a divorce?” The music minister told her, “No, you didn’t do anything wrong. I want you to continue serving because your divorce will be a part
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