wasn’t the problem; it was just the mirror to our sin. Disabilities don’t cause relationships to fall apart; it’s how our sin manifests itself in that disability setting. But as long as we blamed all of our problems on something that was broken and couldn’t be fixed, we didn’t have to deal with the problems. If Cindy and I had stuck around the radio station a little longer, I would have told her what this looked like in our marriage. For example, some days Martin asks me the same exact question five times in a row. When he does that several times a day, it makes me want to punch my fist
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