Never Chase Men Again: 38 Dating Secrets to Get the Guy, Keep Him Interested, and Prevent Dead-End Relationships (Smart Dating Books for Women)

by Bruce Bryans

Men

If a man becomes fully aware that he harbors a greater place of importance in your mind than you do in his, your prestige will lessen even more in his mind.

an important key to success in the seduction process (for women) is to reach a mutual level of interest before acting head over heels with a guy.

you’ve reached a mutual level of interest based on a man’s level of enthusiasm when he’s with you, his eagerness to be with you, and how much initiative he makes to contact you

men want that which is a challenge to attain.

compromise with the minor things.

things that if you were even just a bit more flexible with, guys might find you far more pleasant to be around and easy to please.

hard-to-have but easy-to-please.)

Don’t become disgruntled or frantic every time things don’t go your way or when you cannot get your way.

a man can stand firm as your emotions wash over him, he’s worth your time.

One of the keys to loving proactively lies in how effective you are at understanding the way the man you’re interested in prefers to give and receive love.

Fortune favors the bold,

don’t worry about the outcome and never

keep score.

The flawed thinking in this approach to dating is that you place so much importance on the ‘rightness’ of the men you date you end up not paying attention to the ‘rightness’ of the relationship.

Sometimes a man won’t commit because the time isn’t right for him. In such cases, it may be better to move on and wait for something a little better to come along.

A desperate woman becomes an unhappy and anxious woman,

Women like this are emotionally mature because they understand how to respectfully handle conflict with a man without being overly confrontational or manipulative.

Your dignity should always be more important than your relationship status.

It was unattractive because it didn’t seem as if she valued her

own interests enough, and worse, it felt manipulative.

Don’t pretend that you’ll become or do something for some guy just to get him or to keep him.

when a guy calls things off it may actually be for your best interest.

We all have different wants in life.

There are two ridiculously easy ways you can tell how important you are to guy. The first is to pay close attention to how eager he is to show you off to the world, and the second is to closely observe how eager he is to spend time with you when there’s little to no chance of you being physically intimate with him.

The situation is basically the same if

you rarely go out together on real dates.

If he’s not making an effort to be seen with you in public…he doesn’t have any long-term plans for you.

you concentrate too much only on what you want you may fail to give him what he needs – the challenge of wooing you.

A man wants to be with a woman that makes him desire, or put another way, he wants to want to commit to a woman.

If you become complacent in your seduction, your once loving and adoring man may soon realize he has nothing left to work for.