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Bruce Bryans
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February 2 - February 3, 2023
However, what these men do respect are women who have a zero tolerance policy for time wasting and being manipulated.
Never be too accessible.
Before a serious relationship develops, do not allow yourself to be too available to a man as men quickly tire of that which is easily obtained.
Letting a man dominate the initiation of contact is the only sure way you can gauge his level of interest.
If you want guys to take you seriously, you must get them to pick up the phone and call you.
Never risk your self-respect by trying to force a man to take an interest in you. It is better to disregard a man who displays a wavering
interest than to lose both your dignity and sanity fighting for his attention.
Do not fight, protest, struggle, complain, or nag a man whose desire and interest in you is obviously waning. It not only makes you appear less dignified to him (and others who learn abo...
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Keep your dignity and do that which is the most difficult for most women: ...
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(By the way, this is one of the keys to winning with men: Be hard-to-have but easy-to-please.)
You can be warm, sweet, sincere, and loving with a man without being a mat to walk all over.
never settle
Your dignity should always be more important than your relationship status.
learn to stay true to what’s really important to you.
If he’s not making an effort to be seen with you in public…he doesn’t have any long-term plans for you.
your job as a woman is to ensure that he feels as if he’s making an effort.
I strongly suggest you give this fascinating video about the economics of sex a watch for some further insight.
Video link: http://bit.ly/NSNW28
An emotionally confused woman is easy prey for players, a good time for time-wasters, and a ton of
fun for the non-committal.
Interestingly, every time you walk away from a distasteful
dating situation you make an investment in your self-respect.
I cannot stress enough that you need to have zero tolerance for such men if you want to attract a great guy who actually wants to be with you and only you.
Presenting yourself as a mature, confident, and desirable woman makes you appear highly selective, high status, and therefore, highly valuable
to the opposite sex. Remember that.
“Aw, how cute! Relax, okay? You’re thinking about this way more than I am,” or “Um, I wasn’t asking you to marry me…relax!”
Trust me, for a guy who wants to distance himself from you, the only thing contacting him does is reaffirm what he already believes about you: That he can do better than you.
