Letting a man dominate the initiation of contact is the only sure way you can gauge his level of interest. It’s akin to the concept I mention in my other dating books for women where I tell them to “let him lead.” Showing restraint on your part and letting him lead in this way ensures that you don’t waste your emotional energy worrying if he likes you or not. You’ll know without a shadow of a doubt based on how proactive he is about seeing you AND keeping in touch with you. It may seem trivial, but not dominating the initiation of contact is the surest way to filter a man’s desire to be with
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