The Six Step Method We now turn to the heart of the Six Step Method: the steps themselves. The first step is just getting to a place where women are—getting out of the house. If you don’t regularly leave your home and get into an environment with others, it’s impossible to meet anyone. That’s the foundation. The next step is to physically walk up to a woman and put yourself close enough so that you can speak with her. The next step is to open your mouth and say something simple to her. After you master each step, we move on to the next one.