So how do you learn to talk to women without any rejection? Is that even possible? The answer, of course, is that rejections and bad interactions are inevitable. Whenever you’re learning a new skill, there will be failure involved. But what you don’t want is more rejection than you can deal with. You want to avoid overwhelming yourself with negative feelings. You want to avoid throwing yourself into the deep end of the pool before you trust your ability to swim. Instead, you want to start with small initiatives and move on to more challenging steps while staying as relaxed as possible.