Parents who have found growth and joy in their lives because of or despite their child’s differences have taken an extra step. They have acknowledged their emotions and have consciously thought about what they want their responses to be—as you have learned to do in previous chapters of this book, and as you can explore further on your own. These parents have made a decision not to squelch the frightening feelings and questions that arise, but to face them honestly and with compassion toward themselves. These questions may include: How can I make it better? Will it ever be okay? How will my
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