Many people who marry don’t want to change their lifestyle at all. They’re married singles. They don’t take the time to nurture seeds of shared vision, selflessness, caring, tenderness, and consideration, yet they’re surprised at the harvest of weeds. The social system quick fixes and personality ethic techniques they try to install to solve the problem simply don’t work. These “solutions” can’t take the place of seasons of planting, cultivating, and caring.

