One sensitive father of an ex-cult member said, “If someone gets hit by a truck, naturally you expect that it will take them time to recover. You wouldn’t expect them to get up out of bed, and go and get a job the next week, would you?” His daughter lived with him for her first year and a half away from the cult. He didn’t pressure her to move out or seek employment during that time. He recognized that she was doing the very best she could.