One of the most meaningful gifts a parent can give a child is to acknowledge his or her own mistake, to say, “I was wrong here” or “I’m sorry.” This is so powerful because it also gives the child permission to make a mistake, to admit having messed up and still be okay. It builds in the forgiveness of self. Likewise, being able to say “I’m sorry” and mean it is a pretty great gift to give your spouse—and yourself as well. The more you can imbue your relationship with the spirit of thanksgiving and the graceful presence of praise, the more profound and fulfilling your lives together will be.
