Harsh start-up: You never touch me. Softened alternative: I loved it when you kissed me in the kitchen the other day. You are a natural-born kisser. Let’s do that some more. Harsh start-up: I see you dented the car again. When are you going to stop being so reckless? Softened alternative: I saw that new dent. What happened? I am really getting worried about your driving, and I want you to be safe. Can we talk about this? Harsh start-up: You never have time for me! Softened alternative: I have been missing you lately, and I’m getting a little lonely.
