on the weekends. Harsh start-up: You have no idea how to have a good time. You’re a workaholic. Your softened alternative: 7. You wish that the two of you could save more money. Harsh start-up: You don’t have a clue about how to manage money. Your softened alternative: 8. You wish your partner would spend more money buying you surprise presents. Harsh start-up: When was the last time you bought me anything? Your softened alternative: Sample Answers

