Disregard your spouse or coworker when they bring up a difficult issue about you and your behavior. • Keep doing the same thing over and over even though the consequences remain negative. • Are angry, jealous, and envious — a lot. • Do and say things out of fear of what other people think. • Get busier rather than more reflective when you are anxious. • Tend to idealize others who seem to have been given special gifts by God, forgetting they too have a shadow and are broken like you. • Make negative comments to others about those who frustrate you rather than go to them directly.
