As a person who tends to resist accepting the necessity of endings, I consistently do four things to keep me on track: • I face the brutal facts of situations where things are going badly and ask hard questions, even when everything inside me prefers to distract myself or flee. • I remind myself not to follow my feelings during these times of embracing endings as a death. My feelings inevitably lead me to avoid what I need to face. • I talk with seasoned mentors who are older and more experienced, asking for their perspective and wisdom. • I ask myself two questions: What is it time to let go
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