the “wince confrontation.” I told him to say the following to Jada, while making it clear that it pained him to say it: “I’m getting close to avoiding you, because almost every time I ask you about something you haven’t done you make an excuse or blame someone else. And almost every time I confront you about ways in which you need to improve, you either act hurt, start to cry, or get angry. All of us feel disappointed, hurt, or upset from time to time, but if you get angry or emotional each time, it’s too exhausting to be around. You have the right to react in any way you choose, but I have
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