1 to 3 scale (1 = not at all; 2 = sometimes; 3 = almost always): ■ Does the person whine? ■ Does the person complain? ■ Does the person come off like a victim? ■ Does the person seem to be saying, “Feel sorry for me”? ■ Does the person want to be pitied? ■ Does the person cry or act deeply hurt when something doesn’t go his or her way? ■ Does the person attempt to make you feel guilty? ■ Does it seem to you that the person is a bottomless pit whose needs can’t ever be met? ■ Do you want to avoid the person? ■ Does your stomach get a knot whenever you receive a voice mail or e-mail from the
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