First, healing is a gift from God. I can’t demand a gift, otherwise it is no longer a gift, but an obligation. I can’t expect a gift either or the same is true. Healing is just one of the many gifts that God has given me. If I complain that He has not given me the gift I want, and ignore all the other gifts I have received, what does that say about me? Love is not about getting something from someone. Love is about “the someone”…period.