Without a theology of suffering, we will assume something is wrong, broken, or out of balance whenever we face trials. We may then find ourselves wavering, frantically searching for prosperity and blessing that we believe is the Christian experience, rather than obediently moving forward in the steps of the Savior. Our comprehension of suffering as intrinsic to the life of the believer is essential if we are to find our voice among the faithful—among those who know lament.
Ken Wytsma is on point here...+ larger observations on how the church has forgotten the importance of the lament.