You anticipate others’ feelings and needs and offer unsolicited aid and suggestions without being asked. You may not even be deterred if the person you want to help doesn’t believe he or she has a problem. When your advice isn’t taken or your help isn’t appreciated, you get frustrated, annoyed, hurt, or resentful, but you continue to help whether or not you’re able to change the other person. Some people may take advantage of your inability to say no. Even though you’re volunteering help, by not taking responsibility for your behavior, you may in the end, feel used or resentful and
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