Self-acceptance means that you don’t judge or deny your needs or values in order to make a relationship work. Some people like to spend a lot of time together, whereas others need more space. Some are active, and others are homebodies. Some need lots of affection, and others don’t. To some, security is paramount. Some want adventure and others emotional intimacy or to raise a family. Realize you can be who you are and have what you want without apology or self-sacrifice. Codependents are often afraid of talking about their needs and wants because doing so might scare away their partners, but
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