Like guilt, accountability is often motivated by wanting to live in alignment with our values. Accountability is holding ourselves or someone else responsible for specific actions and their specific consequences. Blame, on the other hand, is simply a quick, broad-brush way to off-load anger, fear, shame, or discomfort. We think we’ll feel better after pointing a finger at someone or something, but nothing changes. Instead, blame kills relationships and organizational cultures. It’s toxic. It’s also a go-to reaction for many of us. Accountability is a prerequisite for strong relationships and
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