Obliger Tendency ___ People often turn to me for help—to edit a report, to take over a carpool run, to speak at a conference at the last minute—because they know I’ll pitch in, even when I’m swamped myself. ___ I’ve given up making New Year’s resolutions, because I never keep them. ___ I’ll do something to be a good role model for someone else, even if it’s not something that I’d do for myself: practice piano, eat vegetables, quit smoking. ___ I get frustrated by the fact that I make time for other people’s priorities, but struggle to make time for my own. ___ In my life, I’ve adopted some
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