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Examine what you have attributed excessive meaning to and where you have tried to fight against the alternatives flow. Reduce importance, detach yourself from the situation, trust the alternatives flow and things will improve.
True success grows from the ruins of past failures.
The paradox is that a major mistake tends to be forgiven more easily than a minor oversight.
the only excuse in the process of choosing your destiny is the fact that not all goals and doors in the alternatives space are truly meant for you.
When you choose foreign goals and doors you are taking the path of greatest resistance.
The other people in the group absorb the negative energy without necessarily being aware of it. Tension creates inhomogeneity in the general field calling up balanced forces as a result.
Stress if a consequence of importance. Stress can be instantaneously relieved by reducing importance.
Every time you experience a feeling of unease ask yourself why. Where has meaning been inflated?
Being in a relaxed state does not mean being listless or apathetic. It is a state of harmonious interaction with the outside world: balance. Balance presupposes the absence of internal and outer importance: I am neither good nor bad and the world is neither bad not good; I am not pathetic and insignificant and the world is not pathetic and insignificant either.
imagination (intention).
for one’s immediate needs can only really be met by the power of inner intention.
Increasing your energy levels not only gives you more vitality, it increases your power of influence. The quality of your energy becomes richer which can be very useful when you need to influence or persuade someone of something.
The technique involves the following affirmation: my channels are widening and my intention energy is increasing.
today is better than yesterday and tomorrow will be better than today. Switch on your energy fountains and repeat the affirmation in your mind that your intention energy is increasing with every passing day.
You can see that there are two completely contrasting life styles: one based on healing illness and the other on looking after your health.
Clearly, in relation to ill-health the first relates to inner intention and the second to outer intention.
Our sense of self-worth is linked with inner importance.
It is useless trying to get people interested in your own being. This desire is a reflection of inner intention.
People can see your full ‘gorgeousness’ but first and foremost they are evaluating to what extent they will feel significant standing next to your perfection.
Set yourself the task of giving your partner the opportunity to appear interesting rather than trying to be an entertaining conversant.
Outer intention works by allowing the inner intention of others to be fulfilled.
Your advantage lies in the fact that you are outer intention directed whereas others are the inner intention directed. Make the most of your advantage.
Finally, if you want to find mutual love abandon possessiveness and dependent relationships.
In all these cases you will inevitably receive the very thing you let go off.
Every time you need something from someone or need to have them do something, let go of inner intention. Ask yourself what the other person’s inner intention might be. Act in a way that assists that person in fulfilling inner intention.
personality characteristics which we refer to in Transurfing as fraile.
When you manage to establish a close connection with another person you are actually frailing, i.e. attuning to that person’s special characteristics.
You attune yourself to the frequency of another person’s thought energy when you talk to them in the language of their own interests.
In dealing with people, if you want to inspire a sense of fellow-feeling in someone, show them how happy you are to see them.
No, a person is wounded most deeply when they are degraded.
Aside from life itself, people cherish nothing more dearly than their sense of self-worth.
Beneficial visualisation also creates this feeling on an energetic level.
Free energy is programmed by thought. The closer the strivings of the heart and mind the purer the programming will be.
As I have already said, charm is in fact mutual love between the heart and mind. When the heart is let out of its box it makes a person more attractive and magnetic.
You must remain aware of this and constantly affirm that you have the right to choose and that if you make an order, sooner or later it will be delivered.
but material realisation is inert like tar and so it takes time, patience and indomitable conviction that you have the right to choose.
you can begin running the slide in your mind picturing that your goal has already been achieved.
The goal should sit in your thoughts as a slide featuring you, already having been offered the job with the application process behind you.
When you are writing your resume, stipulate all your skills but only indicate one position, the one you are currently applying for.
When you are looking for ways to embellish your resume make sure that you express yourself using the employer’s language rather than conjuring up your own eloquent phrases.
forget about yourself and focus totally on the needs of the employer. You should now be solely interested in the employer’s inner intention.
You never know what problems you may have escaped so luckily. Be calm–wait for the job that is meant for you and you will be the successful applicant.
Confidence that is based on comparing oneself with others is pure excess potential, especially if one’s confidence is based on a scornful or contemptuous attitude to other people.
It is no different to fighting the symptoms of
an illness without curing the cause.
The second group consists of external factors linked with unrealistic overestimation of external factors.
If a person could let go of the strings, all they would have to do to maintain their balance would be to avoid creating importance and excess potential.
When you carry the belief that you are an important person the desire arises to prove it to others and excess potential is created.
Let go of the need to prove anything to yourself or others and just accept whatever you needed to prove as