Because one of the best ways to spot a woman who was once a girl of a mother who abandoned her, is to watch a woman glued to her ideas of perfectionism. The fear of attachments. The trust issues. The desire for external validation. The absolute need to control your life now because you had no control over such a huge part of it for so long. The unrealistic ideals and goals set for yourself and those around you, wrapped up in boss bitch, take-no-shit mentality.”
