According to this practice, you have the right to suffer twenty-four hours, but not more. That’s the deadline. Then you have to practice the fourth mantra. If you can’t go to the person, you can use your mobile phone, your computer, or you can write it down on a piece of paper and put it on her desk or somewhere she will see it. I’m sure that when you are able to bring yourself to write it down, you will suffer less right away.