Although it’s a difficult habit to break, it’s not only enjoyable but actually peaceful to have the quiet confidence to be able to surrender your need for attention and instead share in the joy of someone else’s glory. Rather than jumping right in and saying, “Once I did the same thing” or “Guess what I did today,” bite your tongue and notice what happens. Just say, “That’s wonderful,” or “Please tell me more,” and leave it at that. The person you are speaking to will have so much more fun and, because you are so much more “present,” because you are listening so carefully, he or she won’t feel
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