If you want this to be a thing, you’ve gotta accept that sometimes, I’m going to take two hours to do my hair just to go to the grocery store. Sometimes, I’ll throw my hair in a ponytail and not wash it for a week, but that’s because I want to. I like doing my makeup, so if you tell me I’m prettier without it, I’m actually going to get pissed, no matter how well-intentioned you are. And sometimes, I’ll wear a tiny dress or a low-cut top: again, for my job—it can be a requirement because men are often distracted—but I still do it for myself. I’ve had men in the past not like that, not be into
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