I Let You Go

by Clare Mackintosh

I denied anything was wrong: first because I was too blinded by love to see the cracks in my relationship, and later because I was too ashamed to admit that I had stayed for so long with a man who hurt me so much.

Things are getting better, I think. There is more support available for victims of domestic crimes and more legal protection for those subjected to coercive control. But domestic abuse is still endemic, and the very nature of it makes it hard for victims to seek help. I was impressed recently by a brilliant training scheme offered by the police, teaching hairdressers how to spot the signs of abuse. We can all play a part in reducing domestic abuse by recognising that it is almost certainly happening to someone we know, and being ready to offer support.