Kindle Notes & Highlights
Bader, Michael. 2003. Arousal: The Secret Logic of Sexual Fantasies. New York: St. Martin’s Griffin.
Blue, Violet. 2007. The Adventurous Couple’s Guide to Strap-On Sex. San Francisco: Cleis Press.
Easton, Dossie. 2009. The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures. Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts.
Fisher, Helen. 2004. Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of Romantic Love. New York: Holt Paperbacks.
Kerner, Ian. 2009. She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. New York: HarperCollins.
Klein, Fritz. 1993. The Bisexual Option. Philadelphia: The Haworth Press.
Kort, Joe. 2003. 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives. New York: Alyson Books. ———. 2006. 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Find Real Love. New York: Alyson Books.
Levant, Ronald F., and Gini Kopecky. 1995. Masculinity Reconstructed: Changing the Rules of Manhood—at Work, in Relationships and in Family Life. New York: Dutton.
Morin, Jack. 1996. The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Sexual Passion and Fulfillment. New York: Harper Perennial.
Perel, Esther. 2009. Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence. New York: Harper Perennial.
Schnarch, David. 2011. Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships. New York: Beaufort Books.
Weinberg, Martin S., Colin J. Williams, and Douglas W. Pryor. 1995. Dual Attraction: Understanding Bisexuality. New York: Oxford University Press.
doctorcannon.com/tag/bdsm/. This blog of sexologist Dr. Neil Cannon notes a lack of scientific evidence linking BDSM with psychopathology.
Posted February 6, 2009, accessed December 18, 2013.
Cary, Benedict. 2005. “Straight, Gay or Lying? Bisexuality Revisited.” New Yo...
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Denizet-Lewis, Benoit. 2014. “The Scientific Quest to Prove—Once and for All—That Someone Can Be Truly Attracted to Both a Man and a Woman: Bisexuality Comes Out of the Closet.” New York Times Magazine, March 23, 2014. Online as “The Scien...
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Diehl, Wilson. 2013. “Yes, I Really Am Bisexual. Deal With It.” New York ...
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McGreal, Scott A. 2013. “BDSM, Personality and Mental Health.” Unique—Like Everybody Else, Psychology Today blog. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/unique-everybody-else/201307/bdsm-personality-and-mental-health. Posted July 25, 2013, accessed December 18, 2013.
Rahman, Q., and D. J. Symeonides. 2007. “Neurodevelopmental Correlates of Paraphilic Sexual Interests in Men.” Archives of Sexual Behavior 37(1): 166–72.
Savin-Williams, Ritch C., and Zhana Vrangalova. 2013. “Mostly Heterosexual as a Distinct Sexual Orientation Group: A Systematic Review of the Empirical Evidence.” Developmental Review 33: 58–88.
WebMD. 2012. www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/paraphilias-overview. This post provides good overview of paraphilias (kinks). Accessed December 30, 2013.
Williams, Mollena. 2013. “Be Careful Not to Criminalize Fantasies.” New York Times, March 5, 2013.
Wright, iO Tillett. 2012. “Fifty Shades of Gay.” www.ted.com/talks/ io_tillett_wright_fifty_shades_of_gay.html. TED talk posted January 2013, accessed December 18,
bisexual.org. A joint project of The American Institute of Bisexuality (AIB) and the Bisexual Foundation.
www.imagorelationships.org. Imago Relationships International, specializing in therapy for couples.
www.joekort.com. Dr. Joe Kort...
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straightguise.com. A blog by Dr. Joe Kort on straight men who have sex with men.

