There was no accountability or consistency in those relationships.
How does "accountability" benefit in something like this? Here's what Anne had to say on it:
In regards to 'accountability" instead of criticism, I think of it as as authentically being vulnerable in relationships and open to growth instead of criticism. While sometimes criticism is needed (Galatians 6) there should be more life coming out of the relationships than pain...if there is more pain, maybe a a relationship with a different person is in order.

