contemplate your mistakes and what you have done. There are always advanced souls who are there voluntarily to help you develop and to help you prepare for the next life. Because it’s a growing process. It’s like bringing up a child. When a child does something wrong, you wouldn’t throw him into the oven. Which would be figuratively similar to our belief of Hell. Throwing the sinner into the fire. S: You set the child down and talk with them about what they did wrong, and help them to realize why it was wrong and try to find a better action to use in a similar situation in the future.
